Anxiety Megan Hoback Anxiety Megan Hoback

How Anxiety Grows Through Avoidance and How Therapy Helps Break the Cycle

Anxiety can have a way of quietly reshaping daily life, sometimes we don’t even notice it at first, other times it comes barreling in. Sometimes it starts small, like a skipped phone call, a delayed conversation, or a place you stop going to. Over time, anxiety narrows your world without you realizing it. What began as self-protection slowly becomes self-limitation.

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Communication Megan Hoback Communication Megan Hoback

How to De-Escalate a Heated Argument Before It Gets Worse

Heated arguments can feel overwhelming, confusing, and exhausting. In the middle of conflict, it often seems like emotions take over and rational conversation disappears. Many couples enter these moments with good intentions, only to find themselves saying things they later regret. This is not a sign of failure, it’s a sign that emotions are running high and additional tools or support may be needed.

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Family Megan Hoback Family Megan Hoback

Family Relationships: Navigating Distance with Adult Children

Family relationships can be deeply meaningful and, at times, incredibly complex. As children grow into adulthood, their needs, priorities, and sense of identity evolve. Parents who were once at the center of their children’s lives may suddenly find themselves on the outside, watching from a distance. Many parents feel confused, hurt, or even rejected when their adult children pull away or reduce contact.

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Emotion Regulation Megan Hoback Emotion Regulation Megan Hoback

Managing Emotional Ups and Downs: Tools for Emotional Regulation

Emotions are a natural and vital part of life, shaping how we experience the world and connect with others. Yet, when emotions become overwhelming or unpredictable, they can feel like waves crashing over us, sweeping away our sense of calm and clarity. Many people struggle with regulating emotions in moments of stress, conflict, or change. These ups and downs can affect relationships, decisions, and even self-esteem.

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Depression Megan Hoback Depression Megan Hoback

Depression: Finding Joy When Every Day Feels Heavy

Depression can feel like a weight that never lifts, like a heavy blanket on top of you, but not the cozy type. Even on quiet days, it can press down, making everything, from getting out of bed to engaging with others, feel like too much. It’s not about laziness or weakness as some people might say. Depression is a real, often invisible challenge that affects thoughts, energy, and connection.

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Infidelity & Betrayal Megan Hoback Infidelity & Betrayal Megan Hoback

Love or Let Go: What to do After a Betrayal

Facing betrayal in a relationship can be one of the most disorienting and painful experiences. Questions swirl: Can trust be rebuilt? Is there still a future together? Many people don’t know where to turn. At Lumina Counseling, we understand how deeply betrayal cuts, and how many couples struggle with whether their relationship can survive it.

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